Yup, I’m feeling as if I should have raised the daddy thing in the article. I know that’s a sort of preference or even fetish (or is philia the better word?) among some gay men. But even though Lenny was 20 years older than me, I didn’t relate to him on th…
I don't consider it a fetish for some of us.
Fetishes are used to enhance a sexual experience. Age gap in relationships for some is obligatory.
One man said if he sees someone his age, he might as well have a vagina. He experiences no sexual desire for a contemporary.
For some, the daddy/son role play is a kind of fetish, where "Daddy" or "Son" is used as a term of endearment. It carries with it some elements of S&M-light.
But for many of us it is just another element of our sexual attraction.