For a wide variety of reasons, some men can’t have strong erections, but to say that a person “can’t do much with a flaccid penis” reduces sexuality to nothing more than a penis and an ejaculation. Many older men find that when they enlarge the definition of sex to include touch and emotional intimacy, sex becomes much more satisfying, whether or not they can have a full erection.

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